Determining an appropriate gift amount for a bar or bat mitzvah involves considering several factors, such as the relationship to the celebrant, local customs, and personal financial circumstances. A symbolic gift amount relating to the number 18 (Chai, meaning “life”) is a common practice. For example, gifts in multiples of 18, such as $36, $54, or $72 are often chosen.
Gift-giving for these coming-of-age ceremonies has deep roots in Jewish tradition, representing both a contribution towards the celebrant’s future and a symbolic gesture of support as they enter adulthood within the Jewish community. Understanding the significance of this occasion allows guests to choose a gift that is both meaningful and appropriate. This tradition emphasizes the importance of community support during this significant life event.